Yeah, this is the other part of me which i was fully unaware of. I reacted ridiculously everytime others convicted me of my unruly acts. I never accepted my fault(s) - leave aside - saying sorry !!! In fact, I had never thought of making such a confession. Internet was my first choice when I decided to go public for saying - SORRY for all my misdeeds ...
Passing judgements on other's character was the most usual thing I used to do. I could think only from the two extremes. Everyone used to be either introvert or extrovert. I had no word like "ambivert" in my dictionary - What to talk of "Shy Persons" ? Yes - I was wrong at those instances. We can't judge others merely after few glances. In fact, there is every possibilty that you will misinterpret him/her even after you have attended classes with him/her for quite some years !!!!! An unidentified force, a natural thrust, an inherent approach must be there if you really don't want to mess it up completely. In order to know others, you need to perceive the things through his/her eyes, you need to place yourself at his/her place, you need to understand him/her - which we seldom do...
I remember, how much harshly I used to treat my friends who were having soft corners for any girl. My first question to them was - "Is she your girl-friend ?" They very often replied - "No". Without knowing whether it was bcoz he was trying to escape the question or was feeling uncomfortable in saying -"Yes", I used to throw another question (laughing in disdain) - "Then she must be your sister, Isn't it ?".Again, I was thinking from the two extremes. Today, I realize - I was harsh to the point of being obnoxious. I am too obliged to them - They never beaten me up (which I certainly deserved) !!!!! You see her, You praise her, You love her (Please don't misread it) but tell me - Is it necessary to own her ? No - it shouldn't be like that. You can't be so much self-centred....
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I have never seen any such part of RAHUL ,which you are talking about.Of course !!! these gals are the sweetest dreams to aspire for.But you may perceive/deceive through their eyes,rosy cheeks,coral lips......(need not to elaborate more)& if you are talking about judgements being an observer,...Dear!!! Appearance & Content are two different things.sometimes a beautiful container contain POISON (sahi bola na.......).& we usually see the thing ,what we would wish them to be.So no need to say sorry.
& Be aware!!!! I have an edge over you (physically).So if you ever try to ask any such question to me, I'll definitely beat you.Ha ha ha..................
you are right bro. It is not me but I have heard these rubbish so many times that it became inevitable for me to react and that too strongly. I didn't want to raise fingers on anyone and that's why... Sorry for letting you down. One more thing - Many people don't know what are rosy cheeks and coral lips - bcoz they get stuck in eyes all d times !!! Aur haan - POISON kuch nahi hota hai - kabhi kabhi wo hi tumhe jannat tak lekar jata hai.....so stay admiring !!!!
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